Shit happens but we can choose to cut the cancer from our lives
Shit happens and sometimes.
1st kid down with influenza and then encephalitis. Life never the same again. Finances are all put into getting her better. Therapy and classes and interventions. We spend about 10k+ on her a month. Little bro only take a small portion of that and only has Chinese classes apart from school.
To think you get family who are supportive? Umm think again?
People who rat you out when you just ask for help when you’re practically alone having to split yourself picking 2 kids schooling 45 mins away from each other. Having school meetings after work and knowing you can only get 1 of the 2 and need help to get the other if not there will be a penalty. So you ask for help. But you get trouble for this cause certain evil family members instead of offering help prefer to cause more problems for you.
Now, the grandparents of the 2 little kids, they favour the half angmo grandkids only and spend all the weekends dining out with the half-white grandkids. Never once asking my kiddos out for a meal. I can’t even remember the last time they sat together on a table for a meal.
What’s worse, they know the kiddos might need help, send the maid to help instead of offering their help. So sincere huh? But if it were the half-whites, they will be there to help along with an entourage. Driving them around etc.
So my kids get crap food at home whilst the half-whites get Michelin star food all days of the weekend, special occasions, public holidays etc. all their time money and energy is for them. Not my kids. So reading this, what would you do if you were me?
Cut ties right? Yes! That’s exactly what I will do when the time comes cause this is what they have driven me to do. I will cut the cancer from my life and limit pain the kids will feel. They don’t need to feel this kind of disappointment and sadness ever.
I always tell myself. If they didn’t invite you or ask you out, they never wanted you to be there anyway! If they don’t care about you, then why should you?
I’m driven to find a way out fast! I’m so done with these people who pretend to be a family. This is a broken family. A father leading the troop in being unfair and doing all he can to ensure he doesn’t give you any good meals or anything in general.
Treats your son like crap and actively ignores him or scolds him .
Pretends to like your daughter but makes her cry all the time. When the evil man isn’t home. The evil woman is especially mean to the little girl, screaming at her all through the day, to eat quickly! Even hit her for not sleeping fast enough for nap time. Yes! That old witch hit her!
I need to get out of this hell hole fast! And never return. Family my ass! I hope to leave and watch from afar how they tear each other apart once they get board when I’m gone and there’s no one to pick on anymore.
Till then!